Have you been trained to wait for permission to take care of you?
Self-advocacy is the ability to advocate for oneself by expressing your needs, asserting your rights, and making informed decisions. This involves understanding your strengths and weaknesses, effectively communicating your thoughts and feelings, and seeking support when necessary.
You can only share the quality of compassion you are able to give yourself, with others. Your neediness, frustration or angry energy will be noticed, shared and felt by those you service, “try to fix” or control. You can’t give OR receive compassion you haven’t figured out how to give yourself yet. People chose self sacrifice, martyrdom or avoidance because that seems easier than loving and accepting themself, it is what they know, and is a distraction from getting to know and value the self.
Dark Ones sure hope you do not value you so they can continue using and abusing you. We have endured unconsciousness, serving Dark Ones indifference to who and what we are, feel and need for so long we consider service and suppression as normal.
The quantum, universal, cosmic Principle of POVERTY is: to the degree you WITHHOLD your energy and compassionate thoughts to be responsible for the SELF, you create poverty for YOU ALONE. Your thoughts do DEFINE you and create your energy blockages or flows.
You create poverty for you when you are productive and FAIL to take your proper reward, energy, money, love or acceptance in a suitable manner. Because you believe YOU are unworthy or “fake humble” or “pretend pious” or just incapable of owning what you created for yourself throughout all of your 3D/4D realities and incarnations. DEBT, all types of debt including financial is unbalanced energy or karma stored, borrowed, earned, spent, owed, claimed, exchanged and only found in 3D/4D Dark Ones created to control, force and torment each other with.
Is there dissonance between your words, the emotion you project out and how your insides feel? The way you feel and what you emanate need to match if you want to move into compassion for you and others. When you stay conscious and honest with your senses and feelings, your honest emotional state and intent is communicated to you, by you. Heart mind and emotion coherence enables you to understand the power you have and how to use it constructively and wisely.
All an excuse, denial or pretty picture does is terminate authentic communication inside you and with others. With a pretty story or “let’s pretend” you detach, increasing your sense of isolation for you. Is that what you want?
Intimacy is alignment with the truth of how you feel inside, your compassion and honesty and wisdom. Your insecure, fear-based reactive parts need your focused attention and conscious thought to be owned and examined. Learn their history and purpose in your existance. Your pain and wounds point out to you, HOW you wounded others in previous and current incarnations and realities.
Recalibrating and healing means possible headaches, neck and back pain. Waking up feeling tired and experiencing intermittent numbness and tingling. There may be difficulty talking, comprehending or being disorientated, spaced out off balance or ungrounded. Vision may be blurry or we see geometric shapes. We may have a lot of trouble digesting, what and when you eat needs adjustment. Changes may come slowly level-by-level patience, compassion and acceptance of the process is highly recommended.
Explore, be curious and sense communication’s to you from the invisible realm and then take action. Consciously move into different thought cycles and explore other options, WITHOUT your judgement, blame or payback, which is how Dark Ones think, function and get triggered into a low vibrating cycle or feedback loop.
Walk away and ignore the dark, even when you live with them You can just as easily decide they are confused or having a bad day and you can comfort them by asking if you can get them a hot or cold beverage. No need to match their upset.
You can say, “I am sorry you are feeling so wounded right now.”
Consider the higher frequency of being thrilled and amazed at how well you cared for yourself considering all the negatives you found yourself in. Sadly we were trained to think our joy and existence needs to be gifted to us from someone or something else, a source outside of us. That is a misdirection to use and abuse you.
That is NOT TRUTH!
Elevated compassionate ones create ONLY for the self because they are aligned with the Quantum or Universal: Law of ALLOWING, says individuals have the right and RESPONSIBILITY to BE and DO whatever they choose and deal with the intent their creation carries.
Violating the rights and choices of others, expecting them to create for you or DESTROYING any part of the collective environment, drops you out of the quantum field’s compassion into 3D/4D quarantined reality of freewill. Allowing one to be as nasty, rude and insensitive as you like.
Only Dark Ones create for others.
Only Dark Ones ALLOW others to create for them and upset them.
Dark Ones share their wounds by creating wounds in you, giving misdirections, lies and unconsciousness to set you up. They use each other and suck the life force out of each other. “Misery loves company” and wants to include you in their addictions, distractions, apathy, self dislike, abuse, blame, judgement, wars and hate. Repeatedly valuing other’s opinion over yours or expecting them to care about your opinion or expecting them to stay conscious, creates and maintains the cycle of you abandoning yourself to Dark Ones unconsciousness and allowing them to create your reality for you.
Dark Ones choose confusion, drama, unconsciousness and distractions to avoid and resist being compassionate with the self and others. Dark Ones believe that owning and FEELING what is true in them is too awful. They operate under the delusion that if you distract and deny long enough your awfulness will go away or be forgotten. Many millions of years later the awfulness is still present in your soul’s grid system. Awfulness ONLY leaves when YOU consciously transmute your point of perception into compassion for you.
There is no such thing as predestination there are only potentials and predispositions.