Would it make any rational sense for you to demand acceptance, compassion or kindness from someone that doesn’t even like themselves and can’t be trusted? When YOU ask, demand or wait for acceptance, compassion or kindness from one incapable of giving it to themself, HOW logical or rational are you being?
They have no concept of what you want, let alone GIFTING it to you!
So whom is being unreasonable, insensitive, illogical and irrational?
For example, You keeping thinking and waiting, actually demanding, that your parent, significant other or child be loving and accepting of you before you are willing to be loving and accepting of you. That’s not their job, it’s your job.
Thinking acceptance and love is gifted to you by anyother is not logical or rational. Compassion and acceptance is a gift you need to give to yourself. You can’t gift another with what you lack and haven’t created for yourself yet.
Irrational and illogical thoughts and beliefs are just more misdirections we have passed down to each other for generations and many multiple incarnations. That we can and should force, trick, pay for or manipulate each other to get OUR needs, acceptance and wants met. Instead of being responsible for meeting our own needs and accepting us as we are.
My favorite irrational demand is — he, she, it or they, OWE me!
WHY? And how do you “squeeze blood out of a turnip?”
Force, control, deception, paying for it, suffering for it, or demanding IT! Will NEVER get you what you want from one that does NOT have it to give. All you will get is frustrated, angry and vengeful, like many of the 3D/4D gods, dictators and bullies gift us with, their worst characteristics. A person that hates themself cannot give you compassion or self acceptance or even self hate, if you want to get real. Your self hate, guilt or shame would be something you chose to own and dwell in, and how helpful has that been for you and those you interact with? Possibly you can force gifts and attention or “a good fake performance,” but that will never be satisfactory to you because it won’t change what you feel about you. You will continue to be frustrated, unpleasant, nasty and unsatisfied.
The compassion, kindness and acceptance we all seek can only be given by ourself to ourself. Just as those that hate, reject, flagellate and punish the self have created and sustained that thinking for themself and NO ONE can take those thought patterns away from them. Unless they choose to accept new input, guidance and support or redirection using their freewill to change those thought patterns and actions for themself.
You consciously choose or unconsciously allow another to choose for you. When you adopt and implement the other’s choice YOU OWN it and are responsible for it!
Each thought we have carry’s a resonance, particular thoughts, intentions and behaviors.
There are two main categories or resonances of thoughts. LACKING compassion and its resonance that is quarantined, OR they are compassionate and kind. Those who carry and feed their thoughts lacking compassion, do not believe compassion and kindness really exist, that compassion is a lie and a “setup” to use and abuse each other as all Dark Ones actually operate that way, which is why they are quarantined.
Dark Ones will have and be exposed to, multiple compassionate experiences, but WILL discredit and deny them. Choosing to focus instead on their wounds, self pity and blaming. Dark One’s freewill allows them to be as nasty, rude, insensitive and as self abusive and absorbed as they enjoy. What the human consciousness and the gray soul essence focuses on and the meaning they give it, creates their reality for them. It is their feedback loop or cycle of cause and effect that they have consciously put into play during any moment, day or incarnation they are currently experiencing.
Dark canNOT be trusted
They treat each other as they treat the self, “set each other up” lie, steal, cheat, use and abuse anyone that allows them to do that. For example, Donald Trump lies freely, often and ostentatiously and wants to do your thinking for you. He is angry at all of us for not rescuing him from his perceived wounds and abuses. Some people actually want this criminal, liar and cheat to run their country and consequently their personal life. Are they conscious, delusional or running their Illuminist programming?
Dark is not kind or compassionate to the self emotionally or spiritually.
Dark lives in their perceived wounds that are real or imagined. Anger and vengeance is the energy they emanate and share with all to avoid sensing and owning their pain and powerlessness to control the other bullies and tyrants they experienced historically as a victim. Feeling victimized justified to them, the RIGHT to be a predator to any and all. That is the feedback loop they exist in. All they sense and feel is their pain and rage.