That is Victimizing you?
Are you one that shops at stores, and hangs with people and events you KNOW do not have what you are seeking? Do you victimize you by continuing to visit stores and hang with people and events you KNOW in advance will not have what you seek, enjoy and want to take an active part in.
Consider the best method of solving your issues instead of blaming, judging or forcing. What neutral positive options do you have to achieve what you seek? Have you noticed that even your biology is shifting in what it wants. Listen to what the body shares with you instead of resistance, blame or forcing.
Distractions and entertainment that worked before are shifting into you becoming personally active in your existence. We are a part of the action, instead of observing and entertained. Compassionate action would be you frequenting stores, people and events that have integrity, you feel safe with and can trust them.
Stores, people and events you match resonances with. Stay aware of what you are choosing to sense, think and do. Deep breathing is a grounding tool to bring you into present time and consciousness.
LOW resonating quanta responses are wounding yourself AGAIN. Doing the same old thing, will gift you with the same old result. But maybe your goal is to feel sorry for you, again so you can feel entitled to “act out” by feeding your addictions and deny culpability, responsibility for the self.
Someone needs to give me what I want or I’ll need to punish me some more.
“I have VICTIMIZED me again!
When you are responsible for you, it is easier to blend the compassionate energy of a responsible adult and the joy and enthusiasm of a child in a constructive way. Take a few moments to notice things you see, hear and feel now. Pause between switching activities, check in with your biology before starting a new task. Reduce time on social media to avoid dwelling on, or getting stuck in old wounds, past memories or future anxieties. Living in the present reduces stress and puts you in control of what you choose and the most compassion action to take.
When your consciousness is still not present, issue the command for you or anyone else that is dissociated or drifting: Come up to present time! Aloud, to get anyone’s consciousness back to the now moment to make conscious choices! At least for a few moments. The human has the power of choice and action when they are conscious in the now moment. To shape, redirect, support or maintain what is true for you NOW. Acceptance of people and situations just as they are grounds you in what is true and actionable.
Honestly observing what is true in any now moment, allows other’s their reality and allows you, your truth’s and reality. Infinite souls and humans all come with their personal truths and beliefs that shape the energy and amount of compassion they operate with or lack. Your soul has a long infinite history and connection to the souls you interact with. For example, In the book Life Before Birth 2018, they collected information about pre birth experiences, which were very individual personal accounts.
53% of the time the infinite soul contacted the human before conception. And 47% of the contacts occurred between conception and birth.
63% almost 2/3 came to the future moms, 13% of the time it came to the dads,
24% of the soul contact came to grandparents or future siblings.
16% of pre-born beings were witnessed in dreams, 29% appeared in visions while awake. It’s not always the child that comes sometimes it’s someone announcing the child is coming.