A complex answer is a detailed response that may have many parts that need more explanation, thought or time to unfold and/or are always in a continuous flow of transition. Dark Ones, the unconscious ones and those that choose to worry about what and who, they can’t and don’t control are distracting themselves from constructive, compassionate thought, intent and actions.
Spiritual questions and answers may be simple, but the simple answers like “love yourself” are multifaceted because our life experiences have not encouraged kindness and compassion just as you are without any judgment, blame or punishment.
What you consciously focus on, the meaning and intention you give it, creates your reality and the FREQUENCY of the feedback loops you put into play. You receive like energy to what you sent out from you. If it was fake or forced, that is what you will get back in return.
Law of CONSCIOUSNESS, YOU must consciously make your choices because you ARE personally responsible to create, maintain and/or change them.
Law of ATTRACTION attracts like energy, intent and resonance to yours.
Law of ENTRAINMENT is when two or more resonances, realities or thoughts exist in the same space, they MUST and will combine to create a SINGLE resonance.
Law of ALLOWING others their path without your demands and neediness.
Would it make any rational sense for you to demand acceptance, compassion or kindness from someone that doesn’t even like themselves and does not trust themself or anyone else? When YOU ask, demand or wait for acceptance, compassion or kindness from one incapable of giving it to themselves, HOW logical, rational or self defeating are you being? They have no concept of what you want, let alone GIFTING it to you! And that is not aligned with the law of allowing.
So whom is being unreasonable, insensitive, illogical and irrational? Are YOU setting up a feedback loop of demanding/expecting something from someone that can’t, won’t and should not even try to gift you with.
Then you can complain and/or blame a supreme being or anyone else, THAT NO ONE LOVES AND CARES FOR YOU! The problem or issue my dear, is YOU ARE THE ONE THAT DOESN’T LOVE and care for YOU.
The feedback loop energetically, is you LACK acceptance and compassion for you. And the matching energetic energy you receive is LACK of acceptance and compassion for your demands and neediness. You are thinking and waiting, actually demanding, that your parent, significant other or child be loving and accepting of you before you are willing to be loving and accepting of you.
That’s not their job, it’s your job.
Thinking acceptance and love is gifted to you by anyother is not logical or rational. Compassion and acceptance is a gift you need to give to yourself. You can’t gift another with what you lack and haven’t created or understood for yourself yet.
Irrational and illogical thoughts and beliefs are just more misdirections we have passed down to each other for generations and many multiple incarnations. That we can and should force, trick, pay for or manipulate each other to get OUR needs, wants, and acceptance met by someone else. Instead of being responsible for meeting our own needs and accepting us as we are.
My favorite irrational demand is — he, she, it or they, OWE me!
WHY? And how do you “squeeze blood out of a turnip?”
Force, control, deception, paying for it, suffering for it, or demanding IT! Will NEVER get you what you want from one that does NOT have it to give. All you will get is frustrated, angry and vengeful, like many of the 3D/4D gods, dictators and bullies gift us with, their worst characteristics. A person that hates themself cannot give you compassion or self acceptance or even self hate, if you want to get real. Your self hate, guilt or shame would be something you chose to own and dwell in, and how helpful has that been for you and those you interact with? Possibly you can force gifts and attention or “a good fake performance,” but that will never be satisfactory to you because it won’t change what you feel about you. You will continue to be frustrated, unpleasant, nasty and unsatisfied.
The compassion, kindness and acceptance we all seek can only be given by ourself to ourself. Just as those that hate, reject, flagellate and punish the self have created and sustained that thinking for themself and NO ONE can take those thought patterns away from them. Unless they choose to accept new input, guidance and support or redirection using their freewill to change those thought patterns and actions for themself.
You consciously choose or unconsciously allow another to choose for you. When you adopt and implement the other’s choice YOU OWN it and are responsible for it!
Dark Ones will have and be exposed to, multiple compassionate experiences, but WILL discredit and deny them. Choosing to focus instead on their wounds, self pity and blaming. Dark One’s freewill allows them to be as nasty, rude, insensitive and as self abusive and self absorbed as they enjoy.
Dark canNOT be trusted!
They treat each other as they treat the self, “set each other up” lie, steal, cheat, use and abuse anyone that allows them to do that. For example, Donald Trump lies freely, often and ostentatiously and wants to do your thinking for you. He is angry at all of us for not rescuing him from his perceived wounds and abuses. Some people actually want this criminal, liar and cheat to run their country and consequently their personal life. Are they conscious, delusional or running their Illuminist programming?
Dark is not kind or compassionate to the self emotionally or spiritually.
Dark lives in their perceived wounds that are real or imagined. Anger and vengeance is the energy they emanate and share with all to avoid sensing and owning their pain and powerlessness to control the other bullies and tyrants they experienced historically as a victim. Feeling victimized justified to them, the RIGHT to be a predator to any and all. That is the feedback loop they exist in. All they sense and feel is their pain and rage.
NOTICE what is true NOW! It might be more important to use rational thought and logic because your EMOTIONAL fear and anger responses have been so over stimulated that they are not serving you well at this time. You may believe incorrectly or ERRONEOUSLY that it is not possible for you to be forgiven and feel safe with yourself.
When one is ready and willing to put in the work help will be there for you.
Your higher self can meld with your soul’s consciousness to transmute some of your STUCK energy/belief into the higher resonances of compassion for you. And they are doing that for those accepting that the end of 2024. Consciously discern who and/or what is compassionate FOR you and who or what is not. When fear is stronger than desire or curiosity for compassion, fear ultimately wins.
Being a hater or feeling guilty are designed to distract and avoid.
Accepting you with compassion just as you are would mean accepting your sadness, your guilt, embarrassment, self rejection or open wounds to explore, own, and understand as a part of the tapestry that IS YOU currently. Embrace your multifaceted parts that have created your current state of awareness or possibly unconsciousness. Always it’s your choice!