The only one that NEEDS to accept and value you is you.
YOU are the one withholding your acceptance and appreciation of you exactly as you are, because YOU blame, judge, belittle and/or punish you. For your mental health own was is true about you without any judgement or comparison to others. You can only change, if you want something different, what you take ownership of.
When you deny what is true about you, people will try to force or trick others into believing what “even YOU” do not believe about you.
News flash — no one has bought your deceptions! Not even you. Everyone around you is exhausted and tired of PRETENDING things are true that are not. Your pretense, self deceptions and denials are only a game you have played to distract you from what is true about you and the realty you have created for you. Consider exposing the real you so you have something solid to work and create with.
One example of pretend, is when you know full well, the “other one” does not like you or want to interact with you. You try covertly or overtly to punish, torment, guilt, trick or force them a bit to maintain a connection with you. Negative attention is still attention and drama, with YOUR illusion that you can trick, control or force another to like you, or you are “willing to settle” for ACTIVELY disliking you.
Dark behaviors and neediness DOES amplify how the law of attraction works. Lower consciousness begets, attracts and entrains with other’s lower consciousness. Light Ones and compassionate ones walk away allowing lower consciousness and Dark Ones their path without interference even when it is a parent, sibling or significant other.
Another example is you want someone to have compassion for the person you WANT to be. But you don’t have compassion for you. How can you pull that deception off? How do you convince another YOU are compassionate when you are NOT being compassionate with you or them? Apparently you still do not understand what self care, strong boundaries and self acceptance is all about.
If they fall for your deception, all that would prove is that you have attracted and entrained with a lower consciousness matching your’s.
The quantum law of entrainment homogenizes and holds LIKE vibrations and intentions together, their consciousness, intent, customs, ideas and values. We attract and entrain with what we ACTUALLY project out vibrationally. No matter how pretty the frock you wear is or the size and strength of your muscles.
Self pity creates, attracts and entrains with more self pity.
WANTING something, ANYTHING from another makes you engaged and entrained with them in the same resonance. A feedback loop of what you want AND their resistance to your neediness is a fun game of denial, avoidance and distraction! “Your prey” sensing your desperate energy field or vibration and may enjoy resisting it.
Quantum Principle of CORRESPONDENCE: As above, so below, as within, so without. The quantum field and its laws of physics are everywhere, BUT act differently as quanta spin slows, it collects matter, solidifying.
“Correspondences” are similar or equivalent BUT not exactly the same. The instant a thing becomes physical all manner of “limits” exist on it. 3D/4D is very limited because thought patterns and intentions of lower consciousness LACK compassion and always carry an agenda to trick, deceive, judge, force, control and/or punish.
Quantum Principle of HAPPINESS: Is an INNER condition about the way you think and feel about WHO you are, what you do and create.
Fetus’s gray soul essence and their caretakers are both “mature soul essences” that have attracted and entrained together carrying matching resonances and agreements from ALL their incarnations and realities with each other.
You create and sustain your own happiness, meaningful existance and connections with each other by accepting compassionately what you think and do without having conditions, without judgement, blame, competition, upset anger or fear.
When others are unreliable or dysfunctional or have lower consciousness do not include them in your reality. Dark always takes more than it generates, sucking the life out of everyone to sustain, nurture and maintain their misery. Allow them to play with each other without you. You might find yourself alone a lot, until you move into greater compassion for you to attract higher vibrating compassionate ones to interact with.