Who to blame is moot, having little or no practical relevance or value.
Who has the power to change or alter anything for YOU is all that matters.
Blamers, haters and avengers are misleading and misdirecting their area of expertise and power of constructive purpose for themselves. The ONLY one that can MAKE one feel valued, accepted and honored for themself is themselves! When one prefers to percieve the self as victimized, they feel justified in continuing being predator, complainer, tormenter and avenger TO those, they blame and can’t control. They blame others for their unwillingness to be responsible for themselves. They want and use other(s) to do it for them, which never works, satisfies or gets at what is wanted and true.
Blamer’s and avenger’s have put into play all manner of feedback loops and interactions that lack compassion for themselves and collateral damage for others. Human’s infinite soul has been hating and blaming consciously and unconsciously for billions of years and incarnations. The unconscious ones, parrot ignorant irrational phrases that are meaningless to them and others. But get used to create thoughtless actions and suffering creating misery. Falsely and illogically allowing them to feel entitled to vent, control, dominate, punish, humiliate and kill because they couldn’t force another to give them, what only they can give to themself.
The hater gains their distraction, delusion illusion and “power over you” when you buy into what the hater or avenger is selling you and you choose to avoid fact-checking. THEY MEAN YOU NO GOOD! When you engage with a hater, blamer or one trying to make you feel guilty by triggering YOUR fears of rejection, insecurities, anxiety and “not being good enough.” You create a negative feedback loop WITH THEM that impacts, YOUR nervous, immune and endocrine systems. At that point the hater feels they have won something because they had the power to unbalance you and lower your quantum spin’s resonance to their low level of unconscious and “herd movement.” That gives them the delusion illusion of being right, strong and alive while they siphon YOUR energy, self worth, balance and consciousness.
Realization is a compassionate ACTION.
Only when you consciously own your feedback loops can you alter or ideally leave them. Blaming or joining other Dark One’s frequency is choosing a cycle to remain frozen, unconscious and the clueless innocent and victim you created for you in your thoughts.
The 4 MAIN responses to trauma and drama are: fight, flight, freeze (stagnate) or sacrifice the self. These 4 responses AVOID logic or fact-checking to consciously challenge your habitual, robotic responses over multitudes of your soul’s incarnations. Habitual patterns of response we default to are stored in the soul’s inter-dimensional DNA and the human’s SNS, sympathetic nervous system. Until the individual chooses consciously, to address their habitual often self devaluing responses. These automatic responses are “on duty” INSTEAD of your conscious rational logical and compassionate thinking and acting.
Lacking CONSCIOUSNESS, means nothing will change.
Consciously consider that what you hate another for is ACTUALLY something dysfunctional or self devaluing you think about you. Ask your higher self for a u-tube of the first time you thought you hated, something particular thing about you. OR just assume you judged your action negativity in this and previous incarnations. You want to know, sense and feel the original incident and shaming feedback loop YOU put into play about you and others (like you).
NOW, can you consciously forgive and accept the feedback loop you created?
Universal or quantum Principle of CAUSE and EFFECT or RECIPROCAL ACTION, nothing happens by chance or outside of the quantum field’s laws and principles. The fact that you cannot identify a cause or effect is IRRELEVANT. For every thought, intent or action there is a resonance, consequence, reaction you created for you consciously or not so consciously.
Energy is structured in PAIRS of giving and receiving, cause and effect to maintain its free and perpetual BALANCE and MOTION. Being judgmental, blaming or negative uttering out-loud or only in your thoughts means you will ALSO RECEIVE that judgement, blame, negative intent in kind. What you sent out WILL return to the infinite soul in any and all incarnations that feedback loop continues to be feed by your soul’s thought and energetic acts.
RECIPROCAL means given, felt, or done in return, creating a feedback loop or cycle. Binding two party’s energy and intent(s) equally to an agreement, mutual action, obligation or relationship. Laws of attraction and entrainment can last a few moments or lifetime after lifetime. For dark souls, “the effect” in cause and effect, MAY take a great many incarnations to happen. In higher compassionate vibrations the reciprocation is immediate and the soul essence’s vibration and consciousness has a few moments to reconsider or is dropped back into its quarantined 4D toxic reality.
Feedback loops are to make you CONSCIOUS not punished!
TIME and SPACE move lockstep with compassion and slow WAY down when compassion for you is lacking.
The year 2013 and beyond marks the start of our fifth try at moving BACK into the quantum field of consciousness, which is give and receive only compassion. Know that you need to accept and nurture you just as you are and were. Then you can move on from that point. Stay focused and conscious in the present, for your electromagnetic energy field to open up to higher frequencies, generally your higher self can assist you in transmuting YOUR frozen stagnant feedback loops for you to exit them. To embrace compassion for you and all the painful lesson you experienced to understand cause and effect in greater depth and to gather and use the wisdom.