Selfishness or using force is frequently a successful action that brings significant harm, loss, or lack of fulfillment, rendering the perceived win, empty or meaningless or harmful to the self and others ability to be compassionate with the self. The costs of achieving goals that exceed the personal benefits of self care, often leave the victor feeling anxious, dissatisfied, defeated or experiencing self hate. Not the compassion and joy they seek.
Law of ALLOWING others their path without your demands, theft or neediness.
Quantum law of allowing says you have the RIGHT, RESPONSIBILITY and freewill (in quarantine) to BE and DO whatever YOU choose and you will OWN the natural consequences for not allowing.
Selfishness is taking, forcing or tricking from others what they created. Because that lacks compassion for you and them in the process, that action ultimately leaves one feeling empty inside because they didn’t create or earn the right to what they took, tricked or forced from and tried to deprive the rightful owner of.
Failing to stay conscious to innovate, develop new skills or strategies and understand cause and effect better, “selfish ones” keep creating hollow victories for themself doing what they always do. And are surprised or maybe don’t realize setting that feedback loop into motion means they get to experience the same disagreeable result also, hollow victories.
Healthy selfishness or self-care needs your awareness physically, emotionally and mentally to restore and maintain your compassionate self, you can only share and enjoy intrinsic, natural, essential rewards and skills that you created for you to have, enjoy. and experience.
Acceptance of people and situations just as they are grounds you in what is true.
Accepting does not mean agreeing, liking or downplaying another’s impact on you. It is honestly observing what is true in that moment, allowing them their reality and allowing you your reality enjoying what you create for you ULTIMATELY knowing you are the creator of your reality responsible for what you want for you that will naturally FLOW to others.
It is NOT your job to fix, own or control him, her, them or it!
Violating the rights and choices of others, expecting them to create for you and play games of distraction with you or DESTROYING any part of the environment, drops you out of the quantum field’s compassion into 3d-4d quarantined reality of freewill.
Humanities unpleasant events, interactions and feedback loops will always have a combination of positive and negative outcomes without resolution because they lack balance and compassion. Experiencing the continuous flow of events in the now moment means choosing which ones you want to give MORE or LESS of your focus and energy to. Know and accept what you have NO control or ability to alter.
There is no punishment or retribution in higher resonances, there is knowing and honoring the wisdom of cause and effect, giving and receiving LIKE compassionate energy. Nasty begets more nasty attracted back to the sender. The concept of guilt and sin are 3d human creations designed to make you feel “less than” take your personal power away and dependent on other’s to value you, based on YOU accepting their compliance and obedience to their rules, restrictions and judgment. How many 3d Gods and parents are exactly like that? They expect you to fulfill their needs, greed, and twisted, selfish agendas of delusions and illusions of being safe and powerful! They are scared and value other’s opinions over their own.