Cannot be put into rigid, black-and-white extremes or polarities. Simplifying anything complex leads to cognitive distortions, perceptual illusions and delusions. Opposing poles like success versus failure or right versus wrong erases middle ground and all the nuances and extenuating circumstances.
The human mind relies on comparative contrasts to process data, tricking one’s consciousness into treating conceptual limits (like plus and minus) as the absolute boundaries of reality rather than only a mental construct to help humans interpret, organize, and navigate reality. When an individual clings exclusively to one pole while entirely discounting contrary evidence with a rigid bias, it breeds a distorted narrative that resists correction by actual facts. Focus on ONE or two data points on a continuum of multifaceted information will mislead you. Falsely assuming that a tiny sample represents the whole system, person, event or intention. Trying to force a complex, continuous spectrum into simple “either / or” binary category distorts truth.
To understand any multifaceted issue, whether it is human behavior, economics, or your consciousness you need to look at the relationships between the variables. Can you say you hate a person that wears bowties? Would you consider that belief to be a well balanced truth?
Distortions and inaccurate or irrational beliefs or thoughts can and frequently lead to negative reactions, emotions and behaviors. Balance is movement into the center point of multifaceted information on a continuum or getting to know more about anyone wearing a bowtie. Seeking the similarities you have with the entire individual or thing or situation would be understanding the middle ground and nuances.
Fundamental to Hinduism, Buddhism, Christianity and Karma is the wisdom of one’s balanced energy of awareness, thought and intention. Only when you STAY conscious can you factcheck, discern cause and effect, your current beliefs, how you feel, what you sense and perceive.
Dark Ones are not evil, but they do simplify complex people, thoughts and events which lead to cognitive distortions, perceptual illusions and delusions. Right versus wrong based on few data points using NO middle ground or nuances. They have VERY limited ways to interact, think and behave with themselves and therefore others. Their concern is to protect themselves from MORE fear, pain, wounding or suffering, choosing to believe they are victim’s.
Dark Ones are entrained in resonant feedback loops, with other Dark Ones that give and receive, quid pro quo and are frequently injustice collectors. Dark Ones will frequently use forms of sexual harassment, favors or acts, legal and illegal or bribery to exert power, cruelty and insensitivity with each other. An example is when the predator’s significant other brings the predator new victim’s to torment. Instead of them being torment. Dark Ones connect with others in a negative fear based manner because that is the only tool they understand and know how to use. Controlling and limiting themselves, their environment and others, gives them a measure of illusional safety and control as they do know they are being nasty.
“If I am victimizing you, then I am NOT being victimized.” “Right?”
Their deep fear, feeling isolated, powerless and victimized, in their mind, justifies their acts of insensitively and cruelty to others. “Tit for tat” “quid pro quo” simple reality.