Realization, especially of truth, is compassionate ACTION.
Alice Miller defines being an “enlightened witness” as the one having knowledge and understanding of the consequence of violence and injustice and is willing to talk about it. To BREAK the silence and the CYCLE of violence and injustice in their life and all their previous incarnations, on this and other planets. An enlightened witness is conscious and holds a safe space to help victims recognize and OWN the violence and injustices they have suffered and inflicted on others.
Many wounded master survival, BUT refuse to accept that any other reality or option exists for them. They remain frozen in their trauma bond cycles unable and unwilling to risk compassion for themself. They think compassion is a trick and a “set up.” The wounded feel entitled to give the same abuses in return to smaller and weaker ones that allow the self to be abused, which maintains their perpetual feedback loops of pain and suffering given and received.
Breaking the silence and consciously owning their actions, given and received can help disrupt and hopefully stop the feedback loop of protecting, enabling and allowing predators to continue operating with impunity, exempt from punishment and freedom from the consequences of their criminal behaviors.
An enlightened witness allows and gives victims an opportunity to give vent to the victim’s feelings of rage, pain and indignation at being used and abused and powerless to prevent it or get help and support to stop it. Similar to an infant that is powerless and at the mercy of a mean spirited adult or older child.
Being an enlightened witness allows the victim to be heard and felt mentally, emotionally and physically. You witness their value, worth and experiences in the now moment accepting them for who they are and what they are doing for themselves.
When you are being an enlightened witness, YOU need to sit with your own feelings, sensations and thoughts without blame, judgment or you inserting your issues onto the one you are being an enlightened witness for, because that disrupts and shuts down the process of trust, communication and the sense that you care about them. When they’re done, repeat back what you heard to check that you both heard and understand the same things they conveyed. Avoid minimizing, reframing or solving. You want to convey that you believe what they know and intuit.
SIDE BAR; When their focus is on their WOUND, blaming, judgment or an act of vengeance or gossip, they are most likely not interested in healing or transmuting. They are VENTING and most likely want you to be amazed at their degree of victimization or suffering and would like you to join them in their plans to blame and get retribution. It would be wise to allow them their path without you.
PREDATOR, “Confused Innocent in Denial” and VICTIM feedback loop.
All three of these thought patterns and actions carry the SAME low slow quantum spin and frequency of reality of cause and effect. “They reap what they sow.” To feed and maintain their perpetual dark feedback loops they continually change roles of:
Receiving pain and suffering.
Giving pain and suffering and/or.
Being a confused innocent in denial.
All three roles in each individual are played simultaneously or over and over and again to maintain their feedback loop. The same infinite souls form a group that keeps incarnating together UNTIL one or more consciously chooses to raises their resonance into compassion for the self, and leave their dark cycles of entrainment drama, blame, judgement and punishment.
UNRESOLVED issues, traumas, wounds, lies, anger, abuses and misinformation experienced in Gaia’s energy field remain in the individual’s multidimensional DNA and grid system until the soul consciously own’s and transmutes their dense thoughts NOT aligned with giving and receiving compassion and acceptance of the self, exactly as they are, without judgment blame or punishment.
The enlightened witness digs around asking probing questions, trying to help the individual playing these three roles, understand their personal cycle or feedback loops. Exploring the causes and effects of their cruelty, violence and wounding experienced and delivered back and forth to each other and those entrained with them.
Your higher self can be most helpful and informative, when you ask clear single questions. One clear simple question at a time. Ask for a slideshow or youtube or an awareness of the original incident when you consciously chose to force and control or withheld what was needed and abandoned them. Ask for details.
SIDE BAR; many say, “others don’t listen to them.” BUT what they mean is that they want others to DO things the way they want it done. They don’t care or want to accept gracefully that the other person chooses NOT to do things their way.
Quantum Law of PENETRATION, deep listening or mindfulness says anything seen with great quality of attention and knowing creates compassion.
REALIZATION is a compassionate ACTION.
As you stay conscious and focused in the present, your electromagnetic energy field can open up to higher frequencies to create synergistic cooperation with your higher self. Synergies naturally attract higher frequency energy and compassion that changes the energy signatures of all parties during their engagement with each other. Increasing the “Aha’s” awareness and ACTION.
YOU are your CREATOR!
Create your own grace with your compassionate point of perception, intent and thought patterns about you and for you, without judgment, blame, shame, guilt, shunning, attachment, punishment, competition, worship, retribution, secrets or lies.
Another CANNOT gift you with the compassion you NEED to gift yourself with.