Blaming the self acts as a “never-ending cycle” hindering personal growth. It fuels a false sense of control or victimhood and damages relationships. Blame is avoidance, denial and a simplistic answer that is not constructive. Addressing the complex chain of cause and effect interactions is constructive, compassionate, creative and interesting.
Principle of ENTHUSIASM new thoughts generate joy and always show up.
Your curiosity, creativity and understanding the cause and effects of the complex interactions empowers you. The warm fuzzy ones, the frustrating ones that needed redirection, the fun of seeking the rippling effects of the hunt, and knowledge gained. Considering all the factors you experienced is there really someone to blame and for what? And how far back did you go to discover the original incident putting it all in motion. Everything that happened you created or allowed another to create for you.
NOW, it’s your choice to upset yourself or redirect you or rectify something or view the cause and effects in a neutral compassionate positive direction.
Law of AWARENESS, Consciousness you are responsible for your choices.
Consider viewing painful life events as opportunities for growth and development rather than wrongs to be denied avoided or punished. Events happen for us, we are not being victimized. We are being redirected and given an option to use our creator abilities compassionately for us. The option taken historically is to blame the self and others which stagnates our consciousness into a 3d-4d quarantined, toxic resonating energy field deciding whom is at fault and what revenge we want to take.
Law of ALLOWING others their path without our demands, theft or neediness.
Research suggests that letting go of, or revising, unattainable goals is healthy rather than labelling something a failure or your fault. Seek neutral positive ways of viewing your experiences. Consider and own, neutral positive perceptions and options.
Forget about fixing everything with rigid willpower. Allow for progress without perfectionism or what is not possible yet. Taking 100% of the responsibility and ownership of your actions, thoughts, intent and responses allow you personal control.
When you can’t depend on someone else DON’T!
When someone doesn’t want to play with you, allow that.
Creating for others is against the law of allowing and freewill. Freewill is a personal gift, using it to torment you or anyother pollutes the energy making it toxic, dropping your consciousness into a 3d-4d quarantined energy field.
Shift to solutions that each individual can actually do to produce or fix what you are working on. Practicing empathy and compassion is realizing that individuals are often doing the best they can with the resources and cognitive abilities and emotional stability they have to operate with. Ultimately, accountability is necessary, excessive blame is counter-productive, whereas taking responsibility is empowering.
Move your consciousness into curiosity and constructive even if it is just making positive and loving remarks about you, to yourself. Your higher self or a good friend might offer other novel suggestion’s to work with.
Demanding another to percieve reality the way YOU see things or want things to be, is against the law of allowing and YOU might UPSET yourself by feeling you can’t GET no satisfaction, and choose to react frustrated angry and blame others when the fault lies with your choice of perceptions.
A victim is not entitled to victimize the smaller and weaker, kick the dog and belittle others. The predator is responsible. The confused innocent knows the truth.