If I am nice to you. You MUST be nice to me.
This is not a truth or law and goes against the law of allowing!
Law of ALLOWING others their path without your demands, theft or neediness.
The one receiving “you’re nice” does not need to return your nice in kind. And there is NO need or reason for you to feel unloved, disrespected, victimized or valueless when “you’re nice” is not returned. It would be compassionate and wise of you to allow the other their path without your need and demand that they make you feel valued or seen by them.
Not allowing others their path and choice, is YOU not being compassionate or nice for either of you. It is you trying to force another to feed your needs and give you the responses that would please you and make you feel good about yourself. When you get twisted about them not giving a response that pleases you, you can choose to think you have honored and valued both of you and the different beliefs you both hold. Always you get to choose to avoid interacting with them.
All parties in a meeting or synchronicity choose how they will interact with the other ones involved. You may need to keep recalibrating your thoughts to the changes that are continuously in flow currently. Elevated frequencies of thought and intentions DO NOT judge, blame, punish or choose to feel victimized, they wait for you to figure it out and gather the wisdom at your pace.
Many are reorganizing and releasing dense dark thoughts and intentions to create space for higher resonating reactions and responses. Tenderness and vulnerability for the self are on the rise. Self-care, support and inward moments of quiet or reflection will give you space to breathe and sense the energy that is allowing you to operate at your peak performance.
Questioning the self and others will prompt answers!
Speaking your truth clearly and honestly increases your authenticity, compassion and balance. Don’t restrict yourself when you are speaking to create a necessary boundary for you. Speaking your truth comes naturally with practice and kindness without judgement, punishment, dismissiveness or negativity.
Humanities unpleasant events, interactions and dark feedback loops will always have a combination of positive and negative outcomes without resolution because they lack acceptance, forgiveness, awareness, compassion and balance. Hurting or punishing the one, that you percieve, didn’t give you what YOU WANT is just escalating your real or imagined wounds and fears to avoid accepting that, YOU need to be the accepting and compassionate one with you.
Avoiding compassion means maintaining the low toxic quarantined response of Dark Lost Ones which are unconscious and refuse to forgive and be compassionate with themself. Alas, drama is not constructive it function’s as distraction to avoid dealing with one’s issues in a constructive compassionate manner.
Principle of GRACE is you are your creator and the giver of grace TO you!
The compulsion to repeat over and over again NEVER changes the result. Only remaining conscious can one effect change, gain control and achieve different effects. We can’t change events after they happen, but we can change our reaction to events and people going forward. LISTEN closely to get clarity, then choose the next step for you. When all are conscious and calm you have the option to ask them, to tell you the WHY in detail. Listen without interruption or giving your advice unless requested.
Notice when the one you are talking to has relocated their awareness away from you. Stop talking, save your energy and honor their choice not to hear or process what you want them too. Giving your advice or lecture unsolicited, implies, “I know it, and you don’t.” The ONLY one that can MAKE you feel valued, accepted and honored is you! Your focus on others to worship or follow them or you, is feeding them your energy, and or you are sucking the life out of them. Perceiving the self as victimized, justifies TO YOU, being a complainer, tormenter, predator, judge or avenger TO those, you blame or fail to control and force.
Relationships are shifting. Vibrational matches last for a season, a particular reason or a lifetime. Patience and trust with the process of transmuting in you and other’s will be different than we have experienced previously. Strength of your convictions, standing in your truth without fear, judgement or blame is happening. We are moving into our next higher level of consciousness that intensifies our passions, grounded in neutral positivity aligned with quantum laws and principles having very strong boundaries against darkness and Dark One’s agendas. You are NOT here as a slave to others, or a martyr or as being the ONLY savior or helper, release those old misdirections, they are not true.