They are miserable and it is ALWAYS someone else’s fault in their reality!
They failed to force “that someone else” to make them feel valued and honored.
The hater is ignorant and in denial of the FACT that the ONLY person that can MAKE them feel valued and honored is themself! The fact that they need to be responsible for themself is rejected by the hater, they prefer to percieve the self as victimized so they can continue being a predator, complainer and tormenter of those that are NOT FIXING or carrying them.
The hater, hates what they have created for themself. They have put into play all manner of feedback loops and interactions that lack compassion for themself. Human’s soul essence has been hating and unconscious for billions of years. Haters and the unconscious, parrot ignorant irrational phrases that are meaningless to them.
They parrot the biggest bully they currently admire.
Their ego is extremely fragile and fearful. They are angry, contemptuous and disgusted with themself, which they project onto and blame others. Falsely allowing them to feel entitled to vent, control, dominate, punish, humiliate and kill because they couldn’t force another to give them, what only they can give to the self.
The hater gains their distraction, delusion and “power over you” when you buy into what the hater is selling you. THEY MEAN YOU NO GOOD! When you engage with a hater, that has triggered YOUR insecurities, anxiety and fears of being, “not good enough.” You create a negative feedback loop WITH THEM that impacts, YOUR nervous, immune and endocrine system. At that point the hater feels they have won something because they had the power to unbalance you and bring your resonance to their low level. That gives them the delusion of being powerful, strong and alive while they siphon YOUR energy and self worth.
Realization is a compassionate ACTION.
Haters don’t accept compassionate realizations.
THE TRUTH is, that we agreed to what we experienced in 3D/4D reality when we consciously put OUR negative feedback loops of electromagnetic energy into play. When we wanted and intended to wound with malice aforethought, to harm, punish and be vindictive because others should do what we want, when we want it!
Only when you consciously own your feedback loops can you alter or ideally leave them. Blaming others is choosing a cycle to remain frozen, unconscious and the clueless innocent and/or victim.
The 4 MAIN responses to trauma are: fight, flight, FREEZE (stagnate) or sacrifice the self. These 4 responses AVOID logic or factchecking to consciously challenge your habitual, robotic responses over a multitude of incarnations. Habitual patterns of responses we use are stored in the SNS, sympathetic nervous systems and in our inter-dimensional DNA or aura. The infinite grid system of our gray soul. These automatic responses are “on duty” INSTEAD of your conscious rational logical and compassionate thinking.
Lacking CONSCIOUSNESS, means nothing will change.
Consciously consider that what you hate another for is ACTUALLY something you did TO yourself. Ask your higher self for the knowingness of the original incident of you traumatizing another OR ask for a slideshow from the invisible realm OR just assume you did do it in a previous incarnation. You want to know the trauma feedback loop you put into play and are now feeling what it felt like for YOUR victim.
NOW, can you consciously forgive and accept the feedback loop you created?
Universal or quantum Principle of CAUSE and EFFECT or RECIPROCAL ACTION is, nothing happens by chance or outside of the quantum field’s laws and principles. The fact that you cannot identify a cause or effect is IRRELEVANT. For EVERY thought, INTENT or action there is a reciprocal reaction you created for your infinite SOUL and the biology it chose this lifetime.
Energy is structured in PAIRS to maintain its BALANCE and MOTION.
Your soul’s thought, intent and action puts a feedback loop into play structured in pairs of giving and receiving. Being judgmental, blaming or negative uttering out-loud or only in your thoughts means you will ALSO RECEIVE that judgement, blame, negative intent in kind. What you sent out WILL return to the infinite soul in any and all incarnations that feedback loop continues to be feed by that energy.
Can you accept that you need to nurture and accept you just as you were and are now? As you stay focused and conscious in the present, your electromagnetic energy field can open up to higher frequencies, generally your higher self that can assist you in transmuting YOUR frozen stagnant feedback loops for you to exit them. To embrace compassion for you and all the painful lesson you experienced to understand cause and effect in greater depth.