ORGASM

Is the peak of sexual excitement, characterized with a sudden, involuntary release of accumulated neuromuscular tension involving intense pleasure, involuntary rhythmic contractions of the pelvic muscles, and changes in heart rate and breathing often accompanied by ejaculation in males and some females.  Experiences of orgasm differ greatly between individuals and their individual situations.  People with a vulva and vagina typically experience orgasms lasting approximately 20 to 35 seconds.  Those having a penis experience orgasms lasting, usually under 15 seconds.

A climax, orgasm, release of the tension build up, burns through the brain of male and female like wildfire, lighting up the prefrontal cortex and anterior cingulate cortex, SMOTHERING other parts of the brain like the left orbitofrontal cortex, that is used in wise decision making. 

  Orgasms release serotonin and opioids which are also found in heroin.  The amygdala is our threat-detector, firing when we percieve danger or risk.  During intense romantic interactions, the amygdala sleeps, just as parts of the frontal lobe and JUDGMENT also sleep, not connecting current actions with possible long-term consequences or cause and effect.  

Orgasms are a mixture of activating the biology and the infinite soul’s mental and emotional feedback loops.  As many as 30 different aspects of the brain may come into play.  Endorphins are released, leading to intense pleasure throughout the body and genitals.  Increased heart rate, blood pressure and breathing rate are accompanied by muscular contractions.  Other included elements are fantasy, sensation, memories, programing, fear, training, religious beliefs and conceptions about the body and sex.

Ejaculation and orgasm are two different biological processes that need not happen concurrently.  Many penis owners reach orgasm without ejaculating, and report these orgasms as being similar to orgasms a vagina owner has.  Not all sexual activity requires an orgasm, and orgasms don’t mean the sex is great good or even enjoyable.  

Feeling safe, experimenting, communicating and trying again is how you understand what pleasures you the individual through your various stages in life.

CLITORIS researchers didn’t produce a 3D image of the COMPETE clitoral structure until 2008.  All female mammals and some female birds and reptiles do have a clitoris or two, in the case of snakes.  The clitoris is a complex, mostly INTERNAL neurovascular (blood vessels and blood-flow) organ designed for sexual pleasure, and two small external glans of erectile tissue masses located on either side of the vaginal opening, the labia, that swell engorged with blood during arousal, extending backward, forming a wishbone shape.  The clitoris, highly sensitive, button-like tip is located under the clitoral hood at the top of the vulva, wrapping around the urethra and vaginal canal, with thousands of sensory nerves.  The clitoris contains a dense concentration of nerves and spongy vascular tissue that fills with blood, similar to the penis.

The clitoris is attached to the labia, with ligaments that keep the clitoris in its bent position.  In gender-affirming surgery to construct a penis, these ligaments are released to allow the clitoris to straighten and increase in length.  The clitoris develops from the same structures in the human embryo as the penis does, and the two actually have many similar properties.  Clitoral function relies on a number of different nerves.  The clitoris does not have a direct role in reproduction.

Female circumcision is the removal of the clitoris to prevent a woman from feeling sexual pleasure.  It is traditionally practiced in some African, Middle Eastern, and Asian countries, and is often done when a girl reaches puberty.  This is considered a type of female genital mutilation (FGM) and done by the girl’s mother and female relatives.  It’s illegal in many places, another tradition of cruelty, oppression, frequently leading to incontinence.

The G-SPOT is a nerve-dense erogenous zone about 2 to 3 inches inside the vaginal canal, along the front wall.  The G-spot is a specific portion of the clitoris that can be stimulated with vaginal penetration which can feel great, a combination of penetration and external clitoral stimulation can result in intense orgasms.  Remind yourself that masturbation is totally healthy and universal.  It’s hard to know what to ask for from your partner or yourself, if you don’t know what works for you says, Diana Sadat a sex therapist and clinical counselor in Vancouver, British Columbia, says masturbating gives you a chance to explore what feels good.  Touching yourself can help someone else touch you better.

The act of hugging or kissing a loved one, stimulates your pituitary gland to releases oxytocin.  Reinforcing pair bonding, as in a romantic relationships, as it elevates your mood and makes you feel more “attached” to your romantic partner.   As oxytocin is associated with trust, sexual arousal, empathy, gazing, positive memories, processing of bonding cues, positive communication and relationship building.  Thanks to oxytocin, we get a toasty, tranquil feeling whenever we’re with the people we care about and experience a greater sense of well-being.  Forgiveness can lead to lower cortisol (a primary stress hormone) and increase oxytocin levels.

What are the four feel-good hormones?  Dopamine, serotonin, endorphins, and oxytocin.  You can boost levels of these hormones with simple lifestyle changes, like a good diet, exercise, and introspection, which can improve your mood.